- A social media commentator dismissed the relevance of asking women about their sexual history, stressing that body count neither changes the female body nor defines a woman’s worth.
- She explained that the vagina naturally regains shape, even after childbirth, and clarified that virginity cannot be determined by bleeding.
A popular social media commentator has stirred debate over the importance men place on women’s sexual history.
She argued that asking about a woman’s number of past partners is pointless:
“Whether a woman tells you her body count is 1, 2, or 30, how do you expect to know the truth? The number of men a woman has been with does not affect her body physically.”
According to her, such questions reflect insecurity:
“The vagina consists of muscles that can contract and relax, much like how a man’s muscles work. This means that a woman’s body returns to its normal shape regardless of how many sexual partners she has had.”
She added that childbirth also doesn’t erase elasticity:
“Even women who have given birth to multiple children can regain elasticity through certain exercises.”
On virginity, she clarified:
“Virginity should not be measured solely by the presence or absence of bleeding during first-time intercourse, noting that many virgins do not bleed, and some women may have had sexual experiences without leaving visible signs. This is why some men foolishly brag about ‘disvirgining’ a girl, when they could very well be the ninth man she’s been with.”
Her post has since drawn mixed reactions online, with some amused, others critical, and many offering advice.
See some of the reactions below:
Igrindnonstop: “Women lie about body count more than men lie about money.”
Maestroroy: “This woman thinks she’s gaslighting men but what she’s actually doing is telling players they’re right to be players. Because in the end why bother?”
Xdealsgadgets: “And this is why you should marry a virgin. You can date non-virgins for purely sexual reasons. Just enjoy yourself and move on. But if marriage is your end goal, then virgin should be your go-to.”
Seunspace: “If I didn’t meet her as a virgin, her body count to me is 10, where can be any number between 1 and 100. As long as you didn’t meet her a virgin, her body count is whatever she tells you it is. It’s always best to assume the worst, but hope she’s not damaged beyond repair.”
